There’s a shitload of misinformation in the modern world, leading many to disastrous consequences.
One of which that pisses me off the most is the idea of chasing women. Folks, the instant one puts women on a pedestal is the exact reason they will have painful regrets. There’s no game or strategies. No special techniques or theories. The only thing that matters is to focus on yourself. Put yourself first. Lead yourself and get better.
There are a number of points that are of utmost importance and men should achieve those before letting someone else enter their world.
Excellence not Women
Men are not supposed to chase women. They are supposed to pursue excellence and success.
What are men gonna do when calamity strikes if they haven’t built enough?
Building from the Ground Up
There are various facets to getting oneself together. Though personally, I firmly believe maintaining one’s health and academic studies forms the fundamental building block. Juggling 3 balls is harder than throwing 2 balls. And if one wants to achieve a 3-ball cascade flawlessly, they need to practice juggling 2 balls to perfection.
Purpose is something that one firmly believes in and they devote most of their time into it. It can be something they like or something that provides value to the world. I like a number of things but what stands out from all my interests is educating people about the true nature of the world and human beings. I also like promoting and showcasing how mathematics is becoming increasingly relevant and useful in our world. It’s elegant and beautiful. And it’s really fun as well.
So find a purpose and devote all your time, energy and oomph into it.
Leadership is about getting people to work together to achieve a collective goal. It’s being honest with oneself and others. Being direct and assertive with one’s wants and needs. Cultivating mutual respect in people is what a leader should do. But before leading someone else, one needs to develop the grit and strength to lead themselves in life. I am still figuring our life and many other things like countless others and this perpetual process is tough but rewarding.
So lead yourself to be a rock solid person before leading someone else.
Being strong and dominant is what a man should be.
Physical Strength allows one to protect and fight off predators.
Mental Strength grants one the calmness and stability at times of adversity and chaos.
Spiritual Strength is a mythical ability that lets one shapeshift into animals, monsters and mythical creatures based on needs and circumstances.
Sacrificial Strength is about understanding that everything is a trade-off and sacrificing short term indulgence for long term joy.
So be a tough warrior to fight off predators or an arcane shapeshifter to turn into different animals to conquer the monsters.
What are you waiting for? Turn off the phone or whatever device and start kicking ass.