You ask what is okay. Well, going to the gym for girls is natural. It’s okay. We are doing it to attract a partner. Hell, me writing on medium inevitably points to that conclusion. It’s an outward form of signalling one’s intelligence and the potential to provide. It’s also a way to gain status and influence. The more articles I write. The more views I get. And I will be deemed more successful by the opposite sex. Yes, it’s for my self-fulfilment But I am gonna cut to the chase. Yes, I am doing it also to attract a partner. A man starts anything because they want to be more attractive.